Men do not. Oh, and learn how to use Google. And there is no one besides Him. or how many different babys daddy she has is not important. And even if they do, Im not going to be there to find out. But hey, it is what it is. ive slept with 14 guys and im still tight and ocasionally asked if im a virgin. What happens to the guy that took a chance on her got his emotions wrapped up in her only to have them stomped on? Report. I really dont care whether you believe the truth of the matter or not, as I dont care whether you believe in evolution, gravity, or anything else. I am not a whore or a slut. They want a woman who has chosen Now, I have many days where I just tell myself to avoid the shame and anger of what my decisions were and just live as a single person for life, including total abstinence. You and your cohorts. I dont think its for me to judge anyone. LoL! By your logic, nothing matters, and we should all turn our brains off. I wish the world was different where women could be free to live sexually without being labeled as sluts, used, emotional detached, etc. All is equal and fair. Cut it out and replace it with positive experiences. Im seeing this guy and hes super hesitant bc he doesnt know the exact # of people I have been with. I have seen women who had only slept with one man end up being loose while in a relationship. Though I feel that a beautiful girl would have had more options than a similar guy.so I personally won't judge her on that. You can continue with your exact same position that speaks against it, but there is a way for people to do that without it coming across so negative towards the other. If you want to compete with this rest of the world then by all means go right ahead, Ill get in line right behind Wesley Pipes. The woman I started dating after college was the complete opposite. choosing to be selective in whom they sleep with. But nonetheless your human bro. Personally I think it would be great for everybody to wait and not sleep around so much. And I wouldnt ignore the past in a realtionship either. A woman who have slept with a hundred man might b stretched to her limit physically and a man who has slept with a hundred women might just lose his fervour in d bedroom physical and mentally as well. Im dont want the mother of my children, the single person out of all of humanity that I choose to share the rest of my life with to have been used and ridden like the town bike. That is one of the biggest decisions a person can ever make, and it would be ridiculous to not look at how that person has actually lived his/her life. I just wanted to share so that some man one day can know hes not alone. Because you know that men who want a real relationship not just sex dont like easy women, they dont like sluts who give it up to anyone who comes up to them with some confidence but has no brains & no prospects at all.yet they go off and sleep with them like they are gods gift to women.then move onto the next one the next weekend. I dont really care how many people she has been with within reason, however I do want to know what I am dealing with, and I would like to know whether she would be completely honest with me, IF I DESERVED IT! I dont think number should be the issue but how they went about the promiscuity if they were having sex in back alleys and getting double teamed etc how could someone want to be with them if they just had alot of partners its a little easier to swallow. The emotional component I can build well in a live- in arrangement, before we finally settle down. Good for you dear, Im happy for you, and your relationship, but the fact is, the more partners a woman has had, the less likely her marriage is to last. Poll your male friends and see how many of them dream of settling down and building a family with a slut. I raised up the point of abuse as just a way to point out that we have no idea what that a womans reasons are and we shouldnt judge. They want to have fun or they're lonely so they sleep around, devalues herself by doing so. I disagree 100%. Just women who act out and try to dodge the consequences of doing illogical stuff. Means mentally you are stronger. Seemed to be more interesting than knowing the troubled young girls/teenager/woman. Some women do grow up but some still have the need to still sleep around even if they are married so over looking there past sexual habits and number of partners could lead down the road of heartach and waisted time along with a bad divorce and if kids are involved then a life time of drama and kids being neglected physically and finacially and Im speaking from experiance cause we talked about her past and I truly though she would make a good wife but it truly wasnt out of her system. Remember every saint was once a sinner down and every sinner can become a saint and stand tall. experience with this subject: I have been single for about a year twice in my Fuckboys should marry women who slept around and end up opening the relationship when they will inevitably reach the point where they realize one dick or one vagina is no longer enough. Take care. Im not going to explain my sexual past or how many men Ive been with because at the end of the day IT DOES NOT MATTER!!!! No problem. This may make some Men unhappy, but it will work! Hell to some if you arent a virgin you are a whore. As for Step your game up! Sex shouldnt be a competition. Dont judge. . IT SHOWS TOOI PREFER TO OFFER MY FUTURE SPOUSE A TIGHT POCKET BOOK NOT A BUCKET. Also remember that promiscuity at the end of the day has nothing to do with whether youll get an STD because all it takes is having sex with ONE person, who could be your significant other, that has an STD to transmit it to you. Women call men dogs when they have slept with numerous women so why would you in turn do the same thing that youre condemning them for? No one is saying you have to date us. Some of them are alright but it seems like some sleazy fucking dudes thrown into the mix. they resort back to their network of past sex partners, or start going understand that men careand crafty ones will attempt to figure out Thanks for sharing your view point, and thanks for scratching below the surface. I had been with 100 myself. The guys just choose to be promiscuous anyway because of false man-made teaching. Just that the second one gets paid for it? someone to come along and love you for who you are? Does that past lover (so to speak) affect her current situation? On the other side of the fence, as a woman, I wouldnt want to subject my future partner to having any kind of issues with the number of men Ive slept with. And if he is, so what? It is amazing to see how in other on the flip side women whos spent their lives cheating and using unprotected sex have no respect for themselves and should never wake up one day after deciding that they want to be treated like a princess, given that respect. Yep! You have married couples who though they love each other, they do not fully know, understand, and embraced the needs of the other. As far as what does she have to give, my answer is her love, support, and the happiness that she provides. We should strive to be righteous. I am a woman with a not so squeaky clean past but that was mostly due to my upbringing. He already feels guilty and deeply regrets disappointing you. Most of you would reply yes. A possible promiscuous woman is a very valid concern for a man potentially wanting her as a girl friend or more. discuss it. That scares me more than anything else. Messing with them is the same as messing with everyone else they been with. The past does matter, because granted imagine sleeping with the man or woman, exchanging fluids. A woman who has slept with 100 meninevitablyhas certain qualities of character, and inevitably has certain boundary issues, and inevitably has lower standards when it comes to who she allows access to her body. That is just my opinion but we are all entitled to go about life however we please. So, wat about da age do it matter? I sell hairs now. Its so they wont feel so bad about what they consider negatives about themselves or to justify them staying with someone who is totally wrong for them. Just wanted to throw out there that this isnt always the case. You threw out the number 50, but in this topic a high number is relative. HE can build the world and populate it far quicker than SHE can. I feel there is a price that is paid for the way you are choosing to approach this issue, but nothing I can say will convince you otherwise. Yet that does not change the fact higher numbers is not a guarantee that the woman you see before you today isnt at a place in life where she can be best suited for you. Every man has to question how many men she slept with and isolate her and own her so she wont sleep around. And, neither are women programmed in any way, shape or form to share their mates! Ive read a couple of your blogs, and I think youre a great writer with even greater things to say ! forgotten how to be committed. Wouldnt you feel like you are worthless? Am I saying that women that have what would be considered a large number of partners should be shunned? If she is what you need her to be, but then you find out she had X amount of partners, well that shouldnt override who she currently is. Its choices, not mistakes. If she communicates she wants or needs something different than what you want, thats okay. Okay A person exposing the number of past partners has nothing to do with the present moments situation. While media still shames yet sells women. Villarreal X Getafe - Ao Vivo Grtis HD Sem Travar | Futebol Grtis HD. They almost always act differently then those who havent. He thinks I was listening the whole time." Erin. The West is the last, civilized group that needs to comment I think if sexuality was embraced more instead of used as a marketing tool women wouldnt be ashamed or use sex for any other means. Past DOES matter. I just feel that the issues are deeper than sex or promiscuity. This article is not saying to just have sex with whoever and everybody should accept it. It matters. Now lets imagine you want to buy a car and you go to the dealership and you see a car that you really like and the salesman tells you that the car that you feel is so beautiful and would make such a great addition to your life has 289,832 miles on it (NOTE: before the comments flow in about what if the car only had one previous owner, which Id be more than happy to discuss, for the sake of this article this is only to focus on the number of miles). Agrees. You are right about the emotional attachment. And, after that, he paid the most endearing miraculous amazing act on our behalf. If it says anything its that she owns her own body and doesnt let herself be dictated by societys so-called morals. He simply presented a good enough resume for her to push forward. Do you think she Will she affected by my departure? Though there may be a difference in how/what constitutes standard for the individual. We are called to Love, but how can we do that if we allow ourselves to judge and demonize others for their past decisions. He sais it in a pretty comical way too! cant hold it against the woman I love. WHO WANTS A WOMAN or a MAN you can not trust. The number doesn't matter if you are a strong and confident alpha. Many women have overlooked certain needs just to be able to get themselves married. Im LOVING this.past partners MOST DEFINATELY have nothing to do with the present. Thank you, Lord, for what you have done that we couldnt do for ourselves. Hint: your feelings about her past experiences aren't about her, but about you and what you imagine you see. The first onewasvery faithful loyaland gave no other man any indication that he had any shot with her while the other flirtedetc and didnt see anything wrong with it because she hadnt had sex with anyone. Cheers. Especially when random names pop up, she still associates with them, and 80% of her male friends have been with her. Who she once was is not always who she is now. Granted there are some women who embrace being free to do as they please sexually, and then there are some that get caught up for various reasons. Even to the point of death! Its like me saying, The sky often appears blue. That will not change because of Americas pseudo progressive culture. Education can do wonders! You make a great case for why women should not be promiscuous, but what the article is trying to convey is that their past should not be held over their head forever. As far as wrong or right, I will save that for another post. As long as you're both safe and clean, what's the harm? First off you assume that a woman who has experience has slept with that many partners. Now if she has actually slept with 80% of her male friends and she still associates with them, then I can see where that may be to tough of a pill to swallow. I really dont think every woman who has been promiscuous wanted to be what you deem a slut. There surely will be another at the Which will deter women from not being the innocent virgin that so many men desired. She inadvertently shows why dudes dont want to settle down with women who participate in hookup culture. For those who choose not to tell their mate about their pastWell, their mate just wouldnt know about it. Exactly act like a slut then oh now i want a good man. We block love sometimes for all the wrong reasons, and how many men she has previously slept with should never be one of them. know if your lover truly loves you for who you are if they dont know. I accepted the same level of acceptance i had with him. The vagina is made to accommodate different sizes. 2) men and women are wired differently. During this time in my life I was searching for love but going about it in the wrong way. It's also possible she has a crazy high libido, which if you build a commited relationship, can really come in handy when you start getting older and other men are in the "dead bedroom" phase, because they wanted to marry a virgin, who happened to have a very low libido, which made it easy for them to stay a virgin. Youve literally dated so much that your idea of a great person is flawed. Men still have choices, and for men with self-esteem and standards, marrying a slut is not an option. Can you label them accurately? If you are dating with marriage in mind, it is important to look for qualities that would make someone a good life partner. Bascially what im saying is if we never had numbers to say oh well having sex with 20 men makes you a hoe then we would have to base that on how she occured those sex partners. I would encourage you in the future to make your statements in a mature and respectful manner. Its the woman you wanted. Shes going to be somebodys wife or girlfriend, because he values her more than his immature philosophy. All that energy goes to personal projects or commuter games. Women behave as sluts for many reasons. She has actually opened a dialogue with me about the fast girls. I deserve better, and so would my children. So even if a man views you as equal, his desire to not want to see the women he wants go outside his desired perception of her is to make her feel like she is nothing but a whore if she dares cross that line. You telling me number of sexual partners is not important is like telling me how many devorces she had is not important. So dont judge her based on a number, evaluate her based on the woman she is today. When done, breath deeply,. Do boys and men get self conscious taking their shirts off in front of girls? As a woman, if you are ashamed to reveal the number of partners you have had in your lifetimethen why should the male be ok with that? So lets say you meet a woman and start to date her. So the only difference between there relationship now, and there relationship if the truth came out, will be how he decides to let a number affect the way he moves forward with her. Sex isnt an act that comes with an inherent morality- the ethical implications of sex all depend on the context. The image of women as conservative and prudish has been in place since patriarchal days and were created by the fathers and prospective mates. We can talk for hours and hours about pretty much anything and not get bored of each other. Now if the real reason you hold this against a woman is because you dont want to have to compete with the level of pleasure her past lovers provided, well you just need help then. Both come back to screw men. So when they say save yourself for the right one remember the word ONE u can say girl see whats out there see what u like live life but remember u are not only keeping apart of that person u sleep with in you, you are also exposing that person to your future kids and shaming your future spouses bloodline stop trying to justify being a hoe. I know that might scare you, so you are reacting defensively, but its just the truth. As far as cheating goes, even the most decent girl will cheat if a guy is attractive to her- given the time and place. Deal with them. Most guys I know & myself do think how many people a woman has slept with matters, she is wife material only if her count is low. Not to sound like a cocky piece of shit or anything but I have a lot of positives about me and a lot going for me, a girl would be lucky to have me. There is not much left. However, the end result is still the same. And I really wouldnt want one of the Town Tomcats as my husband or future father of my children either. The amount of people Ive had She will hardly change, Yes its does matter every man a woman sleeps with leaves DNA in them. I seem to be shunned by women when after the 3rd date I still havent tried to get into her pants. That being said, if they are not willing to work this It would be a horrifically frightening thing to have to stand before a Holy GOD and try to explain why we haven't been able to live up to HIS Holy standards. People seem to forget that we all make choices that others deem questionable so none of us should judge or look down on others for their choices. I don't see any way that telling her my feelings about this ends well. The commandment is that we shall not fornicate .male or female. You will get married to Joe. The latter is a short-term prospect. Relationships are important, and looking at the PAST, how someone hasyou know/actually/ lived their lives tells you a lot about them. People are unable to act outside their own nature. So having lots of casual sex it a good indicator that a woman has emotional problems. So if he is still able to find happiness with her when he is not aware of the true number, I just dont see why the number being revealed later should now change everything. They should Its not about allowing women to act similar to men, but simply to not judge women who may have had a promiscuous past. Im 26 years old and have never given myself to anyone. I really really really don't want it to leak out in the slightest and thus far have done a good job to not responding for the most part to the passing remarks we've had about her past. Is this maths answer correct for probability? Theres timing to all things, even discussion about lovers. People just want different things sometimes. Personally, my vengeance on society telling me what to think about sex is to have as much of it as I can. No man grows up saying, I cant wait to find a nice slut to settle down and build a family with!!. So, I think it is a bad idea to encourage women to be promiscuous and to encourage men to date these women. I just hope she appreciates you and loves you in return. It is simply saying that the actual number is not what is truly important. They're your property. I just want men to explore a different perspective on this issue. If you're honest more than likely you wouldn't. It wasnt until recently I started putting together clues that she had been with more. I, of course, agree that other factors contribute to failed marriage. I wont pretend that some people (not just woman) choose to be promiscuous for various reasons which include abuse or low self-esteem. Id like to think that its not all a hush-hush, giggle-giggle, shameful thing and that being adult means we can handle the reality that people mothers, fathers, aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, men and women have sex. In fact, you should give yourself time to grieve the sin (Ecclesiastes 3:4; 2 Corinthians 7:10). That's what these things do. .Some people cant stop thinking about how they raped or murdered somebody. insert kylo ren meme here. Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, TSR Community Awards 2022: Most Helpful Thread of the Year- VOTING NOW OPEN, The Official Love Island Thread Winter 2023, Official LSE Postgraduate Applicants 2023 Thread, Law Applicants 2023 entry - discussion thread, Sutton Trust US Programme Cohort 12 (2023) Applicants Thread. Far from it, but I definitely am not gonna freak out about the numbers game! Yep happened to when I was with hera familiar face from the Atlantic to the Pacific. Well, I am going to speak from experience here. Mentally.not so much. He is allowed to his opinions and values as much as u are allowed to your body Shadow Hunter-Is a depressed life worth living. Yes having certain physical advantages helps but trust me there are men who are bigger and women still experienced a very lackluster sexual experience with them. We are in our 60s and feel like teenagers. No but ultimately the man that she winds up with will have to deal with the issues that come about from being with a woman that will, more likely than not, have very different thoughts and views on sex. Because my man gets insecure and wants to leave Well Im sorry to tell you that no man wants damaged goods. If a woman was promiscuous and had sex with numerous men, she was a bad mate choice due to the fact that he may be mistakenly wasting his resources raising another mans child(ren). In my opinion, it kinda shows what type of person you are and how much respect you have for yourself. People make mistakes and should NOT be judged however we cant be stupid and act like it doesnt matter. The reason is that education and being over age 25 when first married are negatively correlated with divorce. Women are no different than men. FloralHybrid. Youre talking like sex just happens when in reality most of these women with hella bodies make conscious decisions to let all of these men have a part of them. And I prefer to date her for a while before I sleep with her. I think how many sex partners you have had should matter. Don't forget to follow us on social networks! If you think she doesnt, think twice, because some people dont know how to show it, or show it in strange ways and we might miss those moments (like I have) because were too focused on the negative bits. Of course you agree. I think you deserve to know the truth. I personally would have never dated a guy who has slept around a lot. You will feel that you left . FACEBOOK is a trademark of FaceBook INC. Stephan Speaks | All Rights Reserved 2020. I understand where you are coming from but we do not agree on this topic. What if a person did poorly in the 9th grade, hell they flat out failed. Which is impossible. I know plenty of beta men who choose to date promiscuous womenusually because they settle, or realize they cant do better. I have those same tendencies, but as a female. No matter where you go and no matter how much you pray to the Lord for time to pass and grant you maturation. I have had sex with a really tight girl, but she was only tight because she had strong kegal muscles. If the actions belie the words, go with the actions. So it can get tricky in that regard. But be careful with your in-person reaction to your significant other's confession. No dice. As it relates to this post I believe that a womans number of sexual partners does matter for a few reasons. That there is no way to properly address things and move past what you used to do? One called her a hoe. Just because some girls have girlfriend and some compromise that all sleep. I agree with you 100% that the more partners a man or woman has can have a negative impact on how they handle future relationships. What if they have lived within your value system for most of their lives, but had a couple of years that they were super wild for whatever reason? We have all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God. Ive never gone out just looking for sex, and I prefer to feel connection with someone. umm doing your kegels will fix that and also not true unless the promiscuous lady in question is having babies left and right. /Especially/ when choosing a mate. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are both part of The Student Room Group. Choosing a good partner can have a major impact on your well-being. I love the fact the despite only being with one man, you are still able to take the position of not using someones past against them. It would best be done in the In fact, I probably got a healthier view of sex, and got to try a lot more interesting things than if I had lost it to a virgin. The summary in red pill logic is a girl who has slept around a lot will have a lot of emotional issues and will end up cheating on you. Just relax. Hey knows how I am but still wants a relationship with me. Indeed, while the data presented in The Marriage Project's 418-person study is legitimate, experts say that the conclusions drawn from it -- especially those which cast judgement on one's sexual history and incite sentiments of slut-shaming -- may not be entirely accurate. Imagine for a moment that the United States was an egalitarian society. its not my pussy they love right my personality and attitude. Do you expect that guys would find equally as desirable and attractive as a life partner the woman who has slept with 100 men, as the woman who has been with 8? Thats it! There is a double standard and its not going away any time soon. I told her that unless she knew those particular girls background, she really had no basis to formulate a judgment. And I find monogamy more fulfilling than anything else. In not an incel, I just don't think hook-up culture will help me become the best version of myself. This is relevant because babies can also stem from sexnot just disease and promiscuous nonsense. You can't have it both ways. Women need to get it together!!!! They go to interview for a job, should the employer now say, hey even though the person you present to us today is worthy of the job, we heard that you failed the ninth grade and that shows that we cant trust you to be what we need you to be. That example uses the same principle you are trying to stand on. 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